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Deciding on the number of kids that you would wish to have is dependent on a lot of factors such as the ability to feed, clothe, and train them in education. When you are faced with the idea of deciding the number of kids to have, what would you go with?

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My wife and I talked about having kids when we first started going out, but the older we got the more we realized that kids just aren't for us. We already don't have much money, plus we prefer the company of cats anyways so we have a kitten who's a handful on his own lol.
I already have a kid now. A little girl whom I love so much more than my own self. Everything about me revolves around her and giving her the best things in life is my number one priority right now.

I don't think I'll ever have a girlfriend no less children. Relationships don't fascinate me as they do many others. I used to be highly interested in building a relationship with someone one day, but that has fallen to the wayside due to multiple failed attempts and the fact that I don't feel I'm relationship-material.

 

Back on the subject of children, I don't want them. I feel as if I would pass my bad genes on to them and that's a recipe for disaster, at least in their youth. I feel as if I would have a lot of anxiety about my children's present and future, and I don't have the finances to have children.

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I’m already a parent to a beautiful 16-year-old girl, and I'm set with just having one child. I also have a few nieces and nephews, with one nephew and one niece on the way, so I'm happy to help my sisters raise them.
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I am already a parent myself to four, two of them are now adults, one is 20 and the other is 18 and I have two boys who are aged 15 and 16.

 

As much as I would have loved to possibly have more kids, I feel due to my age and my health issues, it may not be possible but I am happy that I have four kids who turned out great and I couldn't be more proud :)

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Hmm this is a tough one. I'd say two but I'd also be happy if I don't have kids. Still not sure if I can have kids and so if I can't have kids I'll be okay but if I do have choice I'd like to have two kids. I think one kid gets too spoiled and I know me, I would spoil that child rotten. Also growing up I had a cousin who was a single child and childhood friend that was a single child and they both told me it sucked lol.

 

That being said I'd prefer two. I wouldn't want 3 because I grew up in a household of 3 kids and I just didn't like it. I had two brothers and so I got bullied constantly and there is usually always one left out where there are 3. I also feel like I wouldn't have the energy for 3 kids so yeah 2 would be plenty haha.

 

My boyfriend and I kind of touched base about having kids before we started dating and we are both on the same page so it is really reassuring.

2 because having a sibling is amazing I have a twin sister can't imagine my life without her :)
2 kids are enough for me. I would have loved to have more but with the way the economy is going, it is better to cut my coat according to my size.
One is too many for me... I'm simply not cut out to be a parent!
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At first, I only wanted to have just one kid but after giving it a long thought, I have decided to have at least two or three kids at maximum.
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I already have all the kids I want. 2 boys and a girl. The ideal number of kids to have varies from person to person, and there are certain factors to put into consideration too. Mostly, they are lifestyle, values, and resources. Some people prefer a small family, while others enjoy a larger one.
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I already have 2 boys and do not need any more kids. Its perfect in our culture to have 2 kids.
I have 1 daughter and would like to have 2 more kids. I don't mind if they are boy or girl.
One child is enough for me. I have already discussed with my partner and he agreed to that we won't do anything that will stress me. Either a boy or girl.
Looking at the education expenses and inflation rate, It is Ideal to go for a single child only.
The economy ain't smiling no more. The less the number of kids the easier it is to take care of them. So I plan to have 2 kids at most. The gender doesn't matter.
I only want one kid, I do not have want much stress for myself and my wife. I know I just have to have the conversation with my future partner to see whether our thoughts align.
My parents gave birth to 9 of us. But such cant be recreated nowadays 😬 or 4 is not bad.

My parents gave birth to 9 of us. But such cant be recreated nowadays 😬 or 4 is not bad.

9? 😳 That was a lot! But then again, that was in those days. Things aren't as bad as they are now.

None, since I have 0 interest in having to go through the entire process of having children myself.

 

This doesn’t mean I don’t want to have children around, though. I would totally accept (and like) it if my partner would already have one or two children. But, then again, I would not adopt any children either, since I’m perfectly fine not having any and it’s definitely not a must for me. If my future partner doesn’t have children already, there simply won’t be any.

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