I already have all the kids I want. 2 boys and a girl. The ideal number of kids to have varies from person to person, and there are certain factors to put into consideration too. Mostly, they are lifestyle, values, and resources. Some people prefer a small family, while others enjoy a larger one.
One child is enough for me. I have already discussed with my partner and he agreed to that we won't do anything that will stress me. Either a boy or girl.
The economy ain't smiling no more. The less the number of kids the easier it is to take care of them. So I plan to have 2 kids at most. The gender doesn't matter.
I only want one kid, I do not have want much stress for myself and my wife. I know I just have to have the conversation with my future partner to see whether our thoughts align.