Cedric

Running a community isn't rocket science, but it's also not as easy as just setting up a forum and expecting people to magically show up and become and instant success. If you want to crash and burn, there are some surefire ways to do it. But if you want your community to actually grow and last, here’s what not to do - followed by what you should do instead. 1. "It's my community so it's about me!"Big nope. If you go in with this mindset, you’re setting yourself up for failure. A successful community is about the people who participate in it, not the person who runs it. Sure, you’re the one who built it, but if you treat it like your personal stage rather than a place where members can engage, they’ll lose interest fast. What to do instead: Make it about them. Encourage discussions, listen to feedback, and let the community shape its own culture. You’re there to guide, not dictate. 2. "I don't need to engage with my community."Wrong. So wrong. You can’t just set things up and then go silent, expecting the community to run itself. If you’re not actively participating, why should anyone else? People take cues from leadership. If you’re engaged, they will be too. What to do instead: Be present. Join discussions, ask questions, share insights, and encourage members to contribute. A dead-silent admin is a fast track to a dead community. 3. "Welcoming new members is pointless."Ever walked into a party where no one acknowledges you? Feels awkward, right? That’s exactly how it feels for new members when they sign up and get zero welcome. If you don’t make an effort, don’t be surprised when they ghost after day one. What to do instead: Give new members a reason to stay. A simple welcome message, an introduction thread, or even a casual “Hey, glad to have you here!” goes a long way in making people feel like they belong. 4. "Harsh moderation keeps things in line."Sure, if by "in line" you mean completely empty. Over-moderating kills communities faster than trolls and spam do. If members constantly feel like they’re walking on eggshells, they’ll just find a more relaxed place to hang out. What to do instead: Use common sense. Moderate with a light touch - step in when necessary, but don’t micromanage every little thing. People need room to express themselves. 5. "If I build it, they will come."Just because you created a community doesn’t mean people will automatically show up and participate. You have to give them a reason to join, and more importantly, a reason to stay. What to do instead: Promote your community. Get the word out through social media, partnerships, or good old-fashioned word of mouth. Keep things fresh with new discussions, events, and engaging content. Growth doesn’t happen in a vacuum. But most importantly, never stop doing this. Final thoughts...If you want to kill your community, follow the "don'ts." But if you want to build something that actually lasts, focus on making it welcoming, engaging, and worth people’s time. A community is only as strong as the effort put into it - so put in the effort.

The Rise, Fall, and Flicker of Standalone Forums: A Look Back at Internet Communities Once upon a time, forums were the lifeblood of the internet. You had your favorite boards bookmarked, spent hours posting replies, and knew everyone by username. It was the golden age of community-driven discussion, and it felt like home. But over the past decade or so, standalone forums have taken a wild ride - from dominating online chatter to becoming a niche hideout for the digital wanderer. So, what happened? And did things ever get better? Let’s dig in. The Golden Days (2005–2012)These were the years when forums were king. phpBB, vBulletin, and early Invision installations were everywhere. Didn't matter if you were into gaming, parenting, coding, or conspiracy theories, there was a forum for you. We also need to remember the many flourishing free forum hosts such as InvisionFree, ZetaBoards, IcyBoards, SpreeBB, Proboards, and the list goes on. Community culture was tight, discussions were meaningful, and moderation kept the vibe healthy. It wasn’t about likes or followers - it was about conversations. Real ones. The Great Decline (2012–2016)Enter Facebook Groups, Reddit, and the era of "quick hit" content. As social platforms optimized for engagement, forums started feeling slow and clunky by comparison. Why bother logging in to a niche forum when a similar discussion was already popping off on Reddit, right? 2014 marked a major turning point. Not only were forums losing users, but Google also rolled out SEO updates (Panda and Penguin) that penalized the kind of duplicate or low-effort content forums sometimes generated. Combine that with poor mobile support and outdated UIs, and the ship was already clearly sinking. See Snapshot: 2012: Forums start declining 2014: Major user drop-off 2016: Forums are mostly ghost towns unless niche The Flicker of Revival (2019–2021)Just when things seemed darkest, something interesting happened. People started to miss forums. Tired of algorithm-choked feeds and privacy-invading platforms, users slowly wandered back to slower, more intentional online spaces. Forums like ResetEra, NeoGAF, SomethingAwful, hobbyist boards, and niche communities saw an uptick. The launch and rise of XenForo 2.x helped modernize the experience, bringing responsive design, alerts, and social logins into the mix. The COVID-19 pandemic in 2020 gave forums a moment in the spotlight again as people picked up new hobbies and sought deeper conversations. See Snapshot: 2020: Pandemic-driven bump in activity 2021: Forums hold steady, thanks to better tech and nostalgia 2022 and Beyond: Not Dead, Just UndergroundWe need to be honest to ourselves: forums didn’t make a full comeback. But they’re not dead either. It's not the same as a decade ago, and maybe it will never be much better either. Still, we hope we can bring the best to our communities. They’ve now become digital sanctuaries - low-key places where small but passionate groups gather. Modern forums now serve as a calm, focused alternative to the chaos of social media. If you run one, or hang out in one, you know the vibe: familiar faces, chill conversations, and none of the dopamine-chasing BS. See Snapshot: 2022–2025: Stable but quiet Forums are niche again, but respected So TDLR:Year Status 2012–2016 Major decline, Facebook & Reddit rise 2017–2018 Continued but slower decline 2019–2021 Small revival, niche forums adapted 2022–2025 Stable but low—forums are now underground gems more than mainstream spaces Final ThoughtsForums didn’t lose because they were bad. They lost because the internet changed. But what they stood for - authentic, community-based conversation - still matters. Keep that in mind when you’re building something new or just keeping an old board alive, forums are still one of the most human parts of the web. And honestly? That counts for a lot. If you’re reading this, maybe you’re part of the revival too. Stay forum-pilled. 😁