I got away from forums for a few years due to my health.
I never made teeth cleaning a habit as a kid. So, take that and add being a heavy coffee drinker to smoking 2 packs of cigarettes a day - needless to say, the inside of my mouth went to hell very quickly.
I started getting extreme infections. It was hard to eat anything and nothing worked for the pain. I started drinking heavy just to deal with the pain. I also thought about ending it.
However, I finally broke down and went to the DR. At first, we thought it was cancerous, and I took a few doses of chemotherapy in pill form. Then it was determined that I had some morphed version of the worst type of gum disease you can have.
So, I had 16 teeth pulled in one day (while I was awake and feeling most of it) and got a top denture. It completely fixed everything.
I quit forums during that because my life was breaking down.
So, I was biking at the time and trying to get healthier. I ended up started hiking too and that changed everything.
I don't drink anymore. I don't smoke anymore. I'm healthier than I've ever been. I even found my wife through hiking. Life is awesome now.
But I still had a void in my life because I missed forums. Forums give me feelings of excitement and happiness. I just love the aspects of building a community. So, I came back and now I'm enjoying it again without giving myself anxiety of trying to be the biggest forum. I'm just taking it for what it is and going from there.