Feedback Do you react/reply to someone that you know personally?

[frm]

To me, it kind of feels fake to interact with someone that I know in person over a forum.

Say the guy makes a joke, and he shared it with me first. I already had my reaction to it with him. It feels fake to then again, try and recreate that authentic reaction on the forum when he makes it public.

The same for memes, etc., as he'll dump a lot to me in private and post some to the forum. Sometimes, I'll steal those and post them before he does, if he does, as I'm kind of also pulling his chain to get him to participate as a friend to forum build.

How would you handle it? Do you think it would make for a better community if I engaged with him on the forum in about the same manner that I already did in private, or, if you knew we were friends in person, would you feel it's inauthentic to do so?

 

[Cedric]

There's always a difference how you interact in person compared to on forums. If you would send me something privately, I'll give my reaction, but I'll likely ignore it if you'd post the same thing on forums.

 

[frm]

There's always a difference how you interact in person compared to on forums. If you would send me something privately, I'll give my reaction, but I'll likely ignore it if you'd post the same thing on forums.

That's kind of how I feel too, but from the perspective of someone looking in, whether they know we have that relationship and whether they don't know?

 

[Cory]

I believe only two people I know in real life have joined my message board. I no longer speak to either of them, but one of them posted for a short period on my message board and he made a comment about cooking steaks and I made the comment back that his steaks sure are tasty. It feels fake to talk to one another like that when you know them in real life, but people should be able to take the hint that you know them personally if you do talk to them that way.

 

[frm]

It feels fake to talk to one another like that when you know them in real life, but people should be able to take the hint that you know them personally if you do talk to them that way.

Like just a.

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See ya this Tuesday if I don't get caught up. /
Better reading it than when you tried to tell it (joke) to me.

 

[Cory]

Better reading it than when you tried to tell it (joke) to me.

True, knowing someone personally and acting silly with them on the forum when you may not act that way otherwise can feel inauthentic. But you can always clarify that you know the person personally so people won't feel that way.

 

[Bawse]

I do. It don't matter if I know the person or not, if I have something to add to the discussion. I'll post it.

 

[Al]

Like just a.

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See ya this Tuesday if I don't get caught up. /
Better reading it than when you tried to tell it (joke) to me.

@Cedric often says to me: C U Next Tuesday. I never know what he means by that...